Monday, February 18, 2013

STOP BITCHIN'!!




According to www.freedictionary.com, the term 'bitch' means a female canine animal, especially a dog; a woman considered to be spiteful or overbearing; a lewd woman.

I'm so sick of SOME females acting as if they're going to have a huge meltdown when a male refers to them as a "bitch." How can you get angry with someone for calling you such a word, when you refer to yourself by using a derogatory term? The word "bitch" means bitch, whether you place the word BAD or any other adjective in front of it. Respect is earned, not given. We must give these males something to respect. Don't expect someone to respect you without gaining respect for yourself first! Most people blame the hip hop music of today's industry for a lot of the issues in today's Black community. Do we not have minds of our own? Do we have to do and say everything we hear in these songs? As women, it is up to us to have some class and respect for ourselves by setting standards and not allowing to be called any and everything.

And fellows, next time you refer to women as "bitches" or "hoes," think of the next man referring to your mother, aunt, niece, or sister as such. Those words don't sound so pleasant now, do they?

 

3 comments:

  1. You're right!If ladies never respect themselves then no man will! Respect comes from within

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  2. Yes!!!! I cannot stand that. How can you refer to yourself as a bitch, let your friends call you a bitch; but have the audacity to get upset and rowdy when a guy calls you one. NO ONE should refer to themselves as such a name because it's so degrading. Most guys do it because they hear celebrities and people surrounding them say it. And ladies just let it happen like it's soooo right. But we need to put a stop to it now because society is and will continue to make this a trend.

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  3. You better speak the truth. It is a contradiction when females call each other "bitches" or refer to themselves as "bad bitches," but they are ready to create havoc when a male calls them a btich. Althought there are some people who display the behavior, I never use the term "bitch." Great topic! Let these girls know!

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